They are what holds humanity to some sort of moral standard. Whether it be familial relationships, sexual relationships, friendships, or just mere acquaintances; They make you adhere to certain standards. However, not all relationships are healthy and/or meant to last. Let's see an example:
Guy meets girl. Girl likes guy. They date. Things start to get semi-serious. They meet each other's parents, and random relatives here, and there. Their parents meet, and everyone is getting along. One day, guy decides it's a smart thing to marry this girl. He asks, she says 'Sure.'
Now let's fast-forward ten or so years.
Both are internally sick of the other. Everything that their spouse does that is not to their standards is annoying, or worse, causing extreme discontent within the other. These people should be able to talk to each other normally, discussing their problems and coming to a solution. Everyone around them can see the tension, and the things that they actually 'talk' to each other about, or rather argue about, are microbial things. Little tiny things that infect their thoughts, and feelings towards the other. This couple should inevitably end their relationship, right? There is no saving it. It is too far gone. The world's 'unintentional religious morals', you know.. The ones that were taught as secular? They are the base of this problem. Religion sets an amazing base of morals. Except, the way which we interact with each other. This hypothetical relationship should be ended, by either party.
Why in today's society is everyone upheld to some heinously high standard, which by the end of things causes more chaos than need be? Because of every other relationship that they have ever had. If parents taught their kids to be able to come to them with issues, whether it be with them or not, in a manner in which words were used non-maliciously, then the children's future relationships would be able to flourish healthily. If more people understood that their plenteous variating reactions to things caused an indirect malfunction in all their other relationships. Emotions should be taken with a grain of salt when resolving issues, so that facts and feelings put into words may come thru.
Unfortunately, most people think that the drama must be present. For someone to really be in love, they must confess it upon the tallest mountain, to ALL the people of the world, so that everyone may share in their joy! This is complete bull-shit, and if any one of my significant others EVER did this.. I would shoot them. Twice. Just to make sure they are no longer sucking oxygen. Humans need to realize not everything is about the flash. Sometimes it's just having the ability to see what's dark that is truly important.
Alas, I am rambling.
Well, I hope this wasn't too bad.
And, please do take into consideration that I know there weren't any facts or real points in my argument. This is merely a means of venting my current frustrations.